Thursday, September 30, 2021

3. Play word/mind games in an attempt to dominate the conversation or belittle your position

 This is a problem because it is about domination and power. That sounds more nefarious than it feels in the moment.  Although it also feels like it comes from a place of refusing to admit that I could be wrong It could also be that0.

 I have a need to be right. or I don't like being wrong. at all. 

Would explain why I am so sensitive to people telling me how to do something that I already know how to do., 

To stop this I really need to slow my mind down and really consider what the other person is saying to me. Not just wait for my turn to talk. I need to actively engage with questio0ns not rebottles. 

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